True Love? Can It Be ANYTHING ELSE?!?!

True love.. Does true love have to be with a person?? Why can't true love also be with something you love doing? Because if it was up to me I'd marry basketball. Basketball is my life that's all I do is play basketball. My favorite part of the day is at the end of the day when the whole team is together getting ready to go to practice or to play in the game and we're giving everyone confidants and being a team family. <3 The adrenaline rush you get when you have the ball and your running down the court dribbling the ball and you jump up and do a lay up and all you hear is *SWOOSH!* and the crowd goes wild! Or when your in the stands and your watching some of your friends play and make a shot and your just "WOOOOHOOOO!!!!" and your just so happy ! And the feeling of success after a winning gaming and knowing that you gave it all you had you while keeping a good attitude. Then with addition of your team playing hard, smart, and together! (:

Old EX. Old FEELINGS. What Do You Do?!?!

When you and an old ex hang out just as friends and then old feelings start to come back too.. If you and your ex didn't work out and you know it probably won't be able to work out ever then you need to start thinking about the reasons why you and that person didn't workout and the feelings should go away. IF they don't, then maybe there's a reason why the feelings won't go away and why they are coming back up . Just when your in that position just think about why things didn't workout and if you or your ex has seemed to change what was the reason things didn't workout if your able to tell by just how they act and what they do with you being around.

Feelings .. Best Friend .... Which One?

Have you ever met up with an old friend that you haven't seen in ages, and you had forgotten the feelings you had for that person? And while catching up with the each others the more you talk to that person the more your feelings start to come back, but stronger than ever were. Then you find out that your best friend dated them before you and your best friend were best friends y'all were just friends.. Well , if you and the person you had feelings for in the past and you still do and then you find out that they do too don't be afraid to tell your best friend if that's what keeping you back from dating that person and talk to your best friends because by talking to them you might be surprised by what they say ! (:

What About Those "Relationships"

Girls , don't let a bad relationship get you down because there are so many more single people out there! The world is not going to end just because you and your partner broke up.
Guys , just because things didn't work out with your partner doesn't mean you aren't going to find another one just like your ex or a partner even better than your ex.

So, all in all when one relationship closes another one opens you just have to look for the open one or wait for it to come to you. Because everything takes time and effort , and with relationships it takes a little bit more than sometimes and isn't as easy as some people make it seem to look like.

When Giving An Old Ex Another Chance..?

If you ever think about giving an old ex another chance really think about it thoroughly because if you don't they just might do you wrong again. Tell them it'll take sometime before you both become a "couple".. Just so you can really see if they're telling the truth and truly do want to be committed this time around. If not you will end up with a broken heart or wasted time that you could have used on something better . (:

Revenge To The Ex. ^_^

When your EX partner gives you problems and you really think it's childish and don't feel like bothering with it then give it to the "BOSS MAN". Let the person who can do something about it without you having to do anything at all besides tell about what your ex partner has did to make you have problems in your daily life after breaking up. It just takes all the pressure and drama off your shoulders . *DON'T be afraid to snitch every now and again.

Issues After Break Ups

When your partner wants to start problems in your life after they broke up with you , then you put'em on BLAST! Because they are the ones that broke up with you so they have no right trying to make issues in your life after they left it.! Put your foot down and show them your not gonna put up with it, because they are the one that made the choice they chose , so they gotta deal with it and get over it !

Reasons For Break Ups.

If your partner told you that it's over and they just can't deal with "US" anymore then it's most likely because they found somebody else that's either easy, got money, or just because your partner just used you to get someone back . It's most of time something around those reasons .. But , don't let it get you down show them that your strong and you can move on without them and it's their loss. :) # keep ya head up !

Ups & Downs

Everyone has their ups and downs in a relationship , but after a while of fighting and arguing it's usually just perfect . You and your partner don't argue and you both just go with the flow . All the 'downs' just make the 'ups' that much better & make the relationship stronger .  

Where Is The Relationship At?

If you and your partner are at the point where both of you don't know where the relationship and there is no hope then just give up.. Because all it will lead to is heartache and misery. If everything just leads to negativity then just don't try. If you don't want to lose your partner , but you know it's for the best then you will have the strength to tell your partner. Don't let your relationship go downhill by itself. That's the slowest and most painful path to go down.

Tied Down and Controlling

If your partner is trying to tie you down and get mad when you want to hang out with friends or family on the weekend instead of spending time with them then you need to put your foot down and let your partner know right then and there that they cannot and will not tie you down or try to control you and your life.! When two are in a relationship that has a controlling partner in it then it's NOT a happy relationship !

Long Distance Relationships

Sometimes long distance relationships are the best for people. Especially when people have trust issues because it helps them learn how to trust their partner. Other reasons why are because you can't be controlled by your partner when in a long distance relationship just because they have no way of stopping you from doing what you want to do besides just asking you not too. Also, you and your partner won't be able to see each other 24-7 like at school, work, etc. Just only when you and your partner plan to hang out..  Unless it's a really long distance relationship like your partner living in Texas and you live in Florida. So, if your relationships just aren't working and your getting to see your partner EVERYDAY whenever you want to then maybe you should try long distance relationships and see how it goes..

Ends and Begins

When a relationship ends it just teaches us the mistakes we made and what we want to look for in a partner. So , when we're ready to begin a new relationship with a person you know how to pervent the mistakes that you made in the last relationship and to check and see if they are anything like the partner in your last relationship.

Puppy Love

Some relationships stay in puppy love which means the relationship will last for a while . Others just go through it for a few days or weeks and thats all. Most of the time it's because they've gotten bored or annoyed with eachother and just don't feel a connection , but they don't want to break up so they just stay together for a while longer. Puppy love can be good , but can also , be something that can damage a relationship also .

Social Network + Relationship = BIG issue

Social networks (facebook, twitter, etc.) cause one of the BIGGEST issues in a relationship. If your partner pays more attention to a social network than they do you then you need to confront your partner about it immediately before it goes to far.

Break Up and Make Up

In some relationships there are break ups , but they end up making up. Most of the time when this happens is because the couple either just need space to know what they really want and get back in control of their lives. Then, others are just because they don't know how to live their life without the person they are with especially if the couple have been together for 6months or longer. Some couples get back together because they regret breaking up the relationship especially if they truly happy with that person. But , others just get back together because they can't find somebody else right away. Some relationships are meant to get back together , but others are not. So , don't get back into a relationship that was recently ended if you don't think it'll work out this time around either. *WAIT FOR THE RIGHT ONE TO COME!!

The Outcome Of A Break Up

When in a situation where your partner is fixing to break up with you, and you really like or love that person don't think twice about doing everything you possible can to change their mind and heart. If they really do like or love you then they'll notice that you are trying so hard to keep the relationship together, and work things out. Sometimes though , they just don't know what they want and so they just break up with you because that's all they know what else to do until they can get their mind clear and not have so much pressure on them so they'll be able to think about it a little more thoroughly. After ending the relationship most of the time it's the person that got dumped that's hurt, depressed, and lonely. Then , sometimes there's those relationships where both of them are hurt, depressed, lonely and neither one of them know why it had to happen really other than it just wasn't working out or one of them wasn't over an old ex like they thought they were. People handle break ups differently , but it doesn't mean they aren't hurt or regret whatever they did to make the relationship work. But, never let a bad ending relationship make you think there aren't someone out there for you because that right person will come along you just have to be patient. 

Relationships Take Two.

When being in a relationship you and your partner have to be committed to each other. Both you and your partner have to want to work on the issues and the choices of the relationship. When you and your partner have an issue in the relationship both of you have to want to talk things out , but also be able to express each others opinion and feelings about the whole situation. If your partner doesn't care about what you do, who you talk to, or who you hang out with then they don't care about what happens to the relationship either. Your partner has to WANT TO show that they care about what you do and who you talk or hang out with. You cannot make them be apart of the relationship if they don't want too. You won't be able to love them if they don't show you love back because after a while you'll get tired of giving them love , and you don't receive anything from them. As soon as your partner starts to act or show that they don't care about the relationship talk to them about it and see what you and your partner can do to make this relationship work. If your partner doesn't even try to act like they're interested then just end it right there... It takes TWO to make a relationship work. *SAVE YOUR HEART FOR SOMEONE WHO CARES!

Relationships = Peer Pressure

If  somebody really loves you and respects the choices you make then if your not ready for something a little more serious then they'll wait for you and understand the reason why you want to wait. Don't let the other partner in the relationship push you into something your uncomfortable doing right then. If they do try to then they 1: don't respect your choices ; 2: don't love you like they say they do ; 3: just want whatever they are trying to get you to do and nothing more.