Tuesday, October 30, 2012

Long Distance Relationships

Sometimes long distance relationships are the best for people. Especially when people have trust issues because it helps them learn how to trust their partner. Other reasons why are because you can't be controlled by your partner when in a long distance relationship just because they have no way of stopping you from doing what you want to do besides just asking you not too. Also, you and your partner won't be able to see each other 24-7 like at school, work, etc. Just only when you and your partner plan to hang out..  Unless it's a really long distance relationship like your partner living in Texas and you live in Florida. So, if your relationships just aren't working and your getting to see your partner EVERYDAY whenever you want to then maybe you should try long distance relationships and see how it goes..

Thursday, October 25, 2012

Ends and Begins

When a relationship ends it just teaches us the mistakes we made and what we want to look for in a partner. So , when we're ready to begin a new relationship with a person you know how to pervent the mistakes that you made in the last relationship and to check and see if they are anything like the partner in your last relationship.

Tuesday, October 23, 2012

Puppy Love

Some relationships stay in puppy love which means the relationship will last for a while . Others just go through it for a few days or weeks and thats all. Most of the time it's because they've gotten bored or annoyed with eachother and just don't feel a connection , but they don't want to break up so they just stay together for a while longer. Puppy love can be good , but can also , be something that can damage a relationship also .

Thursday, October 18, 2012

Social Network + Relationship = BIG issue

Social networks (facebook, twitter, etc.) cause one of the BIGGEST issues in a relationship. If your partner pays more attention to a social network than they do you then you need to confront your partner about it immediately before it goes to far.

Wednesday, October 17, 2012

Break Up and Make Up

In some relationships there are break ups , but they end up making up. Most of the time when this happens is because the couple either just need space to know what they really want and get back in control of their lives. Then, others are just because they don't know how to live their life without the person they are with especially if the couple have been together for 6months or longer. Some couples get back together because they regret breaking up the relationship especially if they truly happy with that person. But , others just get back together because they can't find somebody else right away. Some relationships are meant to get back together , but others are not. So , don't get back into a relationship that was recently ended if you don't think it'll work out this time around either. *WAIT FOR THE RIGHT ONE TO COME!!

Tuesday, October 16, 2012

The Outcome Of A Break Up

When in a situation where your partner is fixing to break up with you, and you really like or love that person don't think twice about doing everything you possible can to change their mind and heart. If they really do like or love you then they'll notice that you are trying so hard to keep the relationship together, and work things out. Sometimes though , they just don't know what they want and so they just break up with you because that's all they know what else to do until they can get their mind clear and not have so much pressure on them so they'll be able to think about it a little more thoroughly. After ending the relationship most of the time it's the person that got dumped that's hurt, depressed, and lonely. Then , sometimes there's those relationships where both of them are hurt, depressed, lonely and neither one of them know why it had to happen really other than it just wasn't working out or one of them wasn't over an old ex like they thought they were. People handle break ups differently , but it doesn't mean they aren't hurt or regret whatever they did to make the relationship work. But, never let a bad ending relationship make you think there aren't someone out there for you because that right person will come along you just have to be patient. 

Friday, October 12, 2012

Relationships Take Two.

When being in a relationship you and your partner have to be committed to each other. Both you and your partner have to want to work on the issues and the choices of the relationship. When you and your partner have an issue in the relationship both of you have to want to talk things out , but also be able to express each others opinion and feelings about the whole situation. If your partner doesn't care about what you do, who you talk to, or who you hang out with then they don't care about what happens to the relationship either. Your partner has to WANT TO show that they care about what you do and who you talk or hang out with. You cannot make them be apart of the relationship if they don't want too. You won't be able to love them if they don't show you love back because after a while you'll get tired of giving them love , and you don't receive anything from them. As soon as your partner starts to act or show that they don't care about the relationship talk to them about it and see what you and your partner can do to make this relationship work. If your partner doesn't even try to act like they're interested then just end it right there... It takes TWO to make a relationship work. *SAVE YOUR HEART FOR SOMEONE WHO CARES!

Monday, October 8, 2012

Relationships = Peer Pressure

If  somebody really loves you and respects the choices you make then if your not ready for something a little more serious then they'll wait for you and understand the reason why you want to wait. Don't let the other partner in the relationship push you into something your uncomfortable doing right then. If they do try to then they 1: don't respect your choices ; 2: don't love you like they say they do ; 3: just want whatever they are trying to get you to do and nothing more.